Are Women Too Scared To Be The Dumpers?

 Are Women Too Scared To Be The Dumpers?

1. Too Scared To Be Alone

This one is a given.  I know a lot of women who have stayed in a bad relationship because they were too scared to be single, to sleep in a double bed alone and to be in a cuddle-free environment.  It’s ironic considering how bad relationships make you feel more alone than being single.

2. Too Scared Of Changing Their Facebook Statuses To Single

This one is so superficial but it’s amazing how our Facebook relationship statuses have dictated our decisions in our personal love lives. No woman likes seeing that broken heart show up on their friends’ newsfeeds for all to see.  To avoid this, just remove your relationship status altogether so you don’t get any pity comments on your wall.

3. Too Concerned Comparing Their Own Relationships To Others

Although women don’t like to admit it, a lot of them are always competing with their friends in regards to their love lives. They will compete over how many Facebook couple photos they have, who will co-habitate first and how many romantic vacation spots to go to.  I knew this girl who was visibly miserable in her relationship and she got engaged. When I asked her why she said yes, she told me, “Because that’s what is expected of me at this point.”  Sad, but very true.

4. Too Scared He Will Find The Love You Didn’t Have With Someone Else

A lot of women treat break ups like a “rat race” to new and blissful relationships.  And although a lot of women have no trouble moving on to new men, the thought that their ex will be able to move on with someone who they are truly happy with makes them sick to their stomachs.  Even if they are not in love with their exes anymore, they don’t want to picture them with someone else before they have found the man of their dreams.

5. They’re Waiting For Another Prospect

I find that the only time a woman has no problem dumping their boyfriends is when there is another guy (usually an ex) waiting in the wings.  Like working at a job they hate, a lot of women will not quit until a better prospect is secured.

Although, the number one reason why I think women are too scared to be the dumpers is that many women try to make a bad thing work.  When it comes to relationships, women are hoarders whereas men tend to throw away good relationships that COULD work. 

Life is way too short ladies to stay in a bad relationship and I truly think no lady will be able to find the happiness they have been seeking in their lives without being the dumper at least ONCE in their lifetimes. Being the dumper sucks but it is also very liberating.  It means you won’t settle for less and that is worth being single for a while.

If you’re in a bad relationship, then get out now. Don’t wait for the guy to do it for you because you might wait for a long time and eventually you will realize you are not just wasting time, but you are wasting your life.



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